If you are in any way suspicious that your child is a bully, you need to begin taking the right steps so that they realize the harm that they are causing and stop the bullying.如果您有任何可疑的是您的孩子是一个欺凌弱小者，你必须首先采取正确的步骤，使他们认识到伤害，他们所造成的，停止欺侮。If you don’t stop it, your child may grow up to become an adult bullying because they have seen that they can achieve power this way and enjoy intimidating others.如果你不阻止它，你的孩子可能在长大后成为一个成年人的欺凌，因为他们看到他们能够实现政权这种方式并享受恐吓别人。For many children (both the bully and the victim), bullying can have extremely serious results.对许多儿童（均恃强凌弱和受害人） ，欺凌，可以有极其严重的结果。It has been proven that those children who bully are more likely to experiment with drugs and crime as they get older.事实证明，这些孩子欺负更有可能尝试毒品和犯罪问题，因为他们年纪渐长。They are also more likely to have bad interpersonal relationships with others.他们也更可能有坏的人际交往与他人。This is just the damage it will do to your child – it does not even take into account the damage done to the victim.这仅仅是个损害，它会带给你的孩子-它甚至不考虑所造成的损害，给受害人。
If you do suspect that you child is a bully, you should ask some questions and watch out for certain behavior.如果你真的怀疑你的孩子是一个欺凌弱小者，你应该问一些问题，并观赏了某些行为。This way you will be able to judge for yourself and determine whether or not they are.通过这种方式，您将能够判断，为自己，并确定他们是否。If you are aware of your child showing repeated aggressive tendencies towards other children such as hitting or pushing, this is a strong indication that they are a bully.如果你知道你的孩子表现反复侵略性倾向，对其他儿童的行为，如打或推，这是一个强烈的迹象表明他们是一个欺凌弱小者。Also, if your child gangs up with his friends to hurt another child, this is another warning sign.另外，如果您的孩子团伙与他的朋友伤害了另一个孩子，这是另一个警告标志。
Have you ever seen your child spreading malicious rumors about another child, either when just talking to friends or in general with a lot of other children?你见过你的孩子散布恶意谣言另一个孩子中，无论是说说而已，朋友或一般与很多其他的孩子？This is especially true of female bullies.这是特别真实的女性欺负的。Emotional bullying is just as problematic and needs to be dealt with immediately.情绪上的欺凌，只是因为有问题，需要立即处理。Bullies will often leave friends out on purpose to show that they have power.欺负往往会留下朋友列于目的，以证明他们有权力。So be on the look out for this.所以就看出来这一点。
Of course, good natured teasing and rifts among friends happen while children are growing up, but there are clear indications of bullies and behavior such as that above which occurs on a regular basis needs to be dealt with.当然，良好的性戏和裂痕朋友之间发生，而儿童在成长过程，但有明显迹象显示，对欺负和行为等，上述发生于经常需要处理。It is common for childhood bullies not to understand how serious their actions are and the effect on people’s lives they can have.这是常见的幼儿欺负不明白究竟有多严重他们的行动和影响人们的生活，他们可以有。As a parent, you need to guide your child and explain that it is simply not acceptable behavior.作为家长，你需要引导你的孩子，并解释说，这是根本不能接受的行为。
If you have seen that friends of your child often get involved in bully-like behavior, it does not necessarily mean that your child is a bully – they may just be overwhelmed by peer pressure.如果你已经看到的朋友你的孩子经常涉足欺负样的行为，这并不一定意味着你的孩子是一个欺凌弱小者-他们可能只是压倒同侪的压力。You need to sit your child down and explain that they are not good friends and they need to choose other friends because what they do is wrong.你必须坐你的孩子下来，并解释说，他们不是好朋友，并为他们需要选择其他朋友，因为他们的所作所为是不对的。If your child is not a bully, they will understand what you are saying.如果你的孩子是不是欺负，他们会理解你说的话。
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